Books
Books By Author
Getting the Love You Want – 1st published in 1988; revised in 2008
Keeping the Love You Find – 1992
Giving the Love that Heals -1997
Receiving Love – 2004
Making Marriage Simple – 2013
Note: For more info on available companion books & other materials, go to http://www.imagorelationships.org
Daring Greatly, How the Courage to Be Vulnerable Transforms the Way We Live, Love, Parent, & Lead
The Gifts of Imperfection
I Thought It Was Just Me
The Power of Vulnerability
Five Love Languages: How to Express Heartfelt Commitment to Your Mate
The Five Love Languages of Apology: How to Experience Healing in All Your Relationships
Anxious in Love co-authored Lissah Lorberbaum
Affect Regulation Toolbox, Practical & Effective Hypnotic Interventions for the Over-reactive Client
Why Marriages Succeed or Fail & How You Can Make Yours Last
The Relationship Cure
The Seven Principles for Making Marriage Work
Centering & the Art of Intimacy Handbook, A New Psychology of Close Relationships
The Conscious Heart, Seven Soul-Choices That Create Your Relationship Destiny
Conscious Loving, the Journey to Co-commitment, A Way to Be Fully Together Without Giving Up Yourself
Mining for Gold in Your Marriage
Hold Me Tight: Seven Conversations for a Lifetime of Love
Attachment Processes in Couple & Family Therapy
Gay Affirmative Therapy for the Straight Clinician
Ten Smart Things Gay Men Can Do the Find Real Love
Ten Smart Things Gay Men Can Do to Improve their Lives
“Straight Guise – Is My Partner Gay?” Mending a Shattered Heart, A Guide for Partners of Sex Addicts, Stefanie Carnes , editor
Getting the Sex You Want
The New Monogamy: Refining Your Relationship After Infidelity
Spent: Break the Buying Obsession & Find True Worth
Do I Have to Give Up Me to Be Loved by You?
Do I Have to Give Up Me to Be Loved by You? …The Workbook
Inner Bonding, Becoming a Loving Adult to Your Inner Child
Hot Monogamy: Essential Steps to More Passionate, Intimate Lovemaking
The Truth About Love: The Highs, the Lows & How You Can Make It Last Forever
How to Improve Your Marriage Without Talking About It, co-authored with Steven Stosny
How Can I Get Through to You? Reconnecting Men & Women
I Don’t Want to Talk About It
The New Rules of Marriage, What You Need to Know to Make Love Work
Embracing Each Other – Relationship as Teacher, Healer, and Guide
Embracing Ourselves – The Voice Dialogue Manual
Embracing Your Inner Critic – Turning Self-Criticism into a Creative Asset
Partnering, A New Kind of Relationship, How to Love Each Other Without Losing Yourselves
How to Improve Your Marriage Without Talking About It, co-authored with Pat Love
The Powerful Self
Love Without Hurt, Turn Your Resentful, Angry, or Emotionally Abusive Relationship Into a Compassionate Loving One
Treating Attachment Abuse: A Compassionate Approach
Books By Subject
Better Boundaries, Owning & Treasuring Your Life, Jan Black & Greg Enns
Boundaries in Marriage, Cloud & Townsend
Boundaries: When to Say Yes, When to Say NO to Take Control of Your Life, Cloud & Townsend
Boundaries, Where You End & I Begin, How to Recognize & Set Healthy Boundaries, Anne Katherine,
Loving Your Partner without Losing Your Self, Martha Beveridge *Imago therapist
Making Our Lives Our Own, Marilyn Mason
Where to Draw the Line, How to Set Healthy Boundaries Every Day, Anne Katherine
Attached. The New Science of Adult Attachment & How It Can Help You Find & Keep Love, Amir Levine & Rachel Heller
Beyond Co-Dependency, Melodie Beattie
Cherishment, A Psychology of the Heart, Elizabeth Young-Bruehl & Faith Bethelard
Co-Dependent No More, Melodie Beattie
The Dance of Anger, Harriet Lerner
The Dance of Fear, Rising Above Anxiety, Fear, & Shame to Be your Best & Bravest Self, Harriet Lerner
Dare to Connect, Reaching Out in Romance, Friendship, & the Workplace, Susan Jeffers
Facing Shame, Merle Fossum & Marilyn Mason
Flourish, a Visionary New Understanding of Happiness & Well-being, Martin Seligman
Feel the Fear & Do It Anyway, Susan Jeffers
Forgive for Love, the Missing Ingredient for a Healthy & Lasting Relationship, Fred Luskin
Homecoming: Reclaiming & Championing Your Inner Child, John Bradshaw
How to Be an Adult in Relationships, the Five Keys to Mindful Loving, David Richo
How to Break Your Addiction to a Person, When & Why Love Doesn’t Work & What to Do About It, Howard Halpern
Imago: The Therapy of Love, Jette Simon *Imago Therapist
Journey of the Heart, Intimate Relationships & the Path of Love, John Welwood
Love & Awakening, Discovering the Sacred Path of Intimate Relationship, John Welwood
The New Science of Adult Attachment & How It Can Help You Find & Keep Love, Amir Levine & Rachel Heller
Soul Talk, Powerful, Positive Communication for a Loving Partnership, Nina Atwood
Take Back Your Marriage, Sticking Together in a World That Pulls Us Apart, William Doherty
The Three Marriages – Reimaging Work, Self, & Relationship, David Whyte
True Love, How to Make Your Relationship Sweeter, Deeper, & More Passionate, Daphne Rose Kingma
When “Good Enough” is Never Enough: Escaping the Perfectionism Trap, Jeremy P.Tarcher
The Wizard of Oz & Other Narcissists, Eleanor Payson *Imago Therapist
Hot Monogamy: Essential Steps to More Passionate, Intimate Lovemaking, Pat Love
Getting the Sex You Want, Tammy Nelson
Mating in Captivity, Unlocking Erotic Intelligence, Esther Perel
The New Monogamy: Refining Your Relationship After Infidelity, Tammy Nelson
Sex is Perfectly Natural, But Not Naturally Perfect, Sue Johnson
Your Long Erotic Weekend: Four Days of Passion for Lifetime of Magnificent Sex, Lana Holstein & David Taylo
Adultery, the Forgivable Sin, Bonnie Eaker Weil
After the Affair: Healing the Pain & Rebuilding Trust When a Partner Has Been Unfaithful,Janis Abrahms Spring
Back from Betrayal, Saving a Marriage, A Family, A Life, Suzy Farbman
Beyond Affairs, James and Peggy Vaughan – (The Vaughans’ personal story is as exciting as any novel, as painful as any truth.)
Financial Infidelity, Bonnie Eaker Weil
How Can I Forgive You? The Courage to Forgive, the Freedom Not To, Janis Abrahms Spring with Michael Spring
Make Up, Don’t Break Up, Bonnie Eaker Weil
Making Love Stay – Everything You Ever Knew About Love but Forgot, Peggy Vaughan
The Monogamy Myth – A Personal Handbook for Recovering from Affairs, Peggy Vaughan
My Husband’s Affair Became the Best Thing That Ever Happened to Me: An Inspiring True Story, Anne Bercht, Brian Bercht, & Danielle Bercht
NOT Just Friends: Rebuilding Trust & Recovering Your Sanity After Infidelity by Shirley Glass
Preventing Affairs – You CAN have a Monogamous Marriage, Peggy Vaughan
Recovering From Affairs , A Handbook for Couples, James and Peggy Vaughan
Boundaries with Teens, When to Say Yes, How to Say No, Townsend
Connection Parenting, Parenting Through Connection Instead of Coercion, Through Love Instead of Fear, Pam Leo
Giving the Love That Heals, A Guide for Parents, Harvile Hendrix & Helen LaKelly Hunt *Imago Therapist
How to Talk So Kids Will Listen & Listen So Kids Will Talk, Adele Faber & Elaine Mazlish
It’s Not Fair, Jeremy Spencer’s Parents Let Him Stay Up All Night, Anthony E. Wolf
Kids Pick Up on EVERYTHING, How Parental Stress Is Toxic to Kids, David Code
Nurture the Nature, Understanding & Supporting Your Child’s Unique Core Personality,Michael Gurian
Parenting by Heart, How to Stay Connected to Your Child in a Disconnected World, RonTaffel
Parenting with Awareness & Understanding, Myla & Jon Kabat-Zinn
Parenting from the Inside Out, Daniel Siegel & Mary Hartzell
Parenting with Love & Logic, Teaching Children Responsibility, Foster Cline & Jim Fay
Respectful Parents, Respectful Kids, 7 Keys to Turn Family Conflict Into Co-operation, Sur Hart & Victoria Kindle Hodson
Siblings Without Rivalry, Adele Faber & Elaine Mazlish
To Raise Happy Kids, Put Your Marriage First , David Code
Your Child’s Growing Mind: Brain Development & Learning from Birth to Adolescence, Jane Healy
Why Kids of All Ages Need to Hear NO & Ways Parents Can Say It, David Walsh
Get Out of My Life but First Could You Drive Me and Cheryl to the Mall, A. Wolf
Parents and Adolescents Living Together, G. Patterson & M. Forgatch
Parenting Teens with Love and Logic, Updated & Expanded Edition
A Parent’s Guide to the Teen Brain, a website
Buddha’s Brain, the Practical Neuroscience of Happiness, Love, & Wisdom, Rick Hanson
Change Your Brain, Change Your Life, The Breakthrough Program for Conquering Anxiety, Depression, Obsessiveness, Anger, & Impulsiveness, Daniel Amen
Magnificent Mind at Any Age, Natural Ways to Unleash Your Brain’s Maximum Potential,Daniel Amen
Making a Good Brain Great, Daniel G. Amen
The Developing Mind, How Relationships & the Brain Interact to Shape Who We Are, Dan Siegel
The Brain that Changes Itself, Stories of Personal Triumph from the Frontiers of Brain Science, Norman Doidge
Re-wire Your Brain for Love, Creating Vibrant Relationships Using the Science of Mindfulness, Marsha Lucas
Train You Mind, Change Your Brain, How a New Science Reveals Our Extraordinary Potential to Transform Ourselves by Sharon Begley